The International Association of Professional Birth Photographers is hoping their annual “Birth Photo of the Year” competition. This year, they have over 150 entries! There are quite a few amazing images in the running, I’d like to think mine is one of them. There is an incredible panel of judges this year, and voting is open for the People’s Choice Award through midnight Central time on Friday February 1. My entry is #64, you can see it below:
I have been a childbirth educator since 1997, and a doula since 1999. I have attended hundreds of births. And yet, I find there is still so much to be learned. I really enjoy attending workshops and conferences, and have done so as often as finances allow.
I started attending local conferences very soon into my journey. I have attended Utah Doula Association conferences just about every year since I knew about them. (I missed 2002, having given birth just a few days before the conference, but I don’t think I’ve missed any others!) The Perinatal Professionals conference has gone through several name changes over the years, but I have (almost) always been there! I have had the opportunity to speak at the UDA conference several times, and the Perinatal Professionals conference once.
Attendees at the 2011 DONA International Conference in BostonMy first national conference was for DONA International, and was held in San Francisco in 2003. I had planned to attend with a friend, but ended up going alone. It was amazing to sit in a room full of hundreds of doulas. Amazing to hear about the work of very well known leaders in the field, from their own mouths! I was hooked.
Since then, I have had the opportunity to attend national conferences for DONA International and Lamaze International in Denver, Vancouver BC, Phoenix, Milwaukee, Atlanta, and Boston. I have learned about advances in research, advocacy, and our understanding of how birth works. I have met birthy “celebrities” like Penny Simkin, Teri Schilling, Marshall Klaus, Robbie-Davis Floyd, and Marsden Wagner. I once joined a group of women for dinner at the hotel restaurant, and was surprised when the woman sitting next to me introduced herself as Henci Goer.
Penny Simkin and I at the DONA International conference in Atlanta, GABut I’ve also met many women you’ve probably never heard of, women who are working very hard to advocate for and serve women in their own communities. Women who run successful volunteer programs. Women who run successful doula businesses. Women working to change laws in their areas for the better. Women who would say they are doing nothing worth talking about, just running their own little doula business. They all inspire me. I’ve made some good friends at conferences over the years!
I have had the chance to listen to Harvey Karp speak about The Happiest Baby on the Block, to hear about Andrew Kotaska’s work on helping people understand the culture of risk. I listened to Penny Simkin look back on the many changes she has seen and experienced in the 40 years she has been working with childbearing families. I’ve heard James McKenna passionately speak about cosleeping. I’ve heard Michael Klein talk about the pitfalls of inappropriately applying research. I had the chance to see movies like Pregnant in America, The Business of Being Born and Orgasmic Birth long before they were available locally. I’ve belly danced, sung, I’ve used a rebozo and I’ve played learning games.
Attending the conferences has taught me new information, challenged the way I think about things, and stretched my horizons more than I ever could have imagined.
These large national conferences also generally feature a wonderful exhibit hall, full of vendors providing all kinds of amazing products for doulas and childbirth educators. I always come home with something new: a book, video, a teaching tool, a birth ball cover, etc. I’ve won posters as a door prize, and I have picked up some interesting freebies like a USB drive shaped like a tube of Lansinoh!
In 2012, I decided to take a smaller approach and instead of a national conference, I chose to attend a Passion for Birth workshop. I’d met Teri Schilling at several conferences before, and I’d always made a point of attending her sessions because she really stands out above the crowd with her interactive way of facilitating learning. My friend Sharon Muza was the other workshop facilitator, so I knew I’d be laughing plenty. The workshop was intended for those just starting out in childbirth education, but I knew I would still come home with plenty of new ideas. I was not disappointed! I came home with pages and pages on my list of “things to implement when I get back” and I was completely invigorated and ready to shake things up for the better.
I hope that I never, ever get to a point where I no longer feel a drive to learn and improve in my field! Hmmmm….. what should I do this year? If you have a suggestion for a conference or workshop I might enjoy, please let me know!
(Little bonus: DONA International’s slideshow of images from the 2009 Atlanta conference. I was there, but if you can spot me in any of the photos, you have better eyes than I do!)
As 2012 comes to a close, I start thinking about the last year, and all the wonderful babies I’ve been lucky enough to meet. Since I also do birth photography through my sister business Maternal Focus, I decided to compile some of my all-time favorite images from 2012 into one slideshow. I hope you enjoy it. The song is by Beth Champion Mason, entitled “I want to Remember This”. I hope you enjoy seeing them!
How many doulas does it take to change a lightbulb?
None. We don’t actually change the light bulb. We encourage you to change your own lightbulb in the manner you feel is most appropriate for you. We can discuss with you different lightbulb changing methods and help you develop a plan for changing your lightbulb. We offer emotional support and encouragement during the entire process, from climbing the ladder to turning on the light switch to make sure the bulb works, we are there for you every step of the way. It’s your lightbulb, your way.
There are so many sites out there for pregnancy, but not all of them are mother-friendly and natural birth friendly. Here are some of my favorite places for pregnancy information that respects a mother’s intelligence and right to make decisions for herself and her baby:
Information
Science and Sensibility A great blog to learn more about birth research, if I do say so myself. I am a regular contributor there.
Giving Birth With Confidence A great blog to learn more about birth from childbirth educators, doulas, and other moms.
Push for Your Baby A great site for expectant moms all about pregnancy and birth, and what you can do to improve your baby’s health.
Spinning Babies Great site with information about how moms can help their babies be better positioned for birth.
Kim James The web site of a doula I’ve only met once – she has fabulous information on epidurals.
Birth Stories
Birth Diaries Beautiful site with many birth stories shown in pictures or video. All are rated on a “graphic” scale, so you will know ahead of time if there is anything in the stories you might find objectional.
Organizations
DONA International Official web site of the doula organization that certifies me. Great information on what doulas are and do, details on how to become a doula, and doula boutique where you can buy doula-related merchandise.
Lamaze International The childbirth education organization that certifies me. A great resource for parents, and also the organization I would recommend to anyone considering becoming a childbirth educator.
ICEA Web site of the International Childbirth Education Association, which is the group I received my first certification through.
La Leche League Web site of the best-known organization supporting breastfeeding. You can access articles on various breastfeeding topics, find a meeting in your area, or join in on online group. To find a group meeting in the Salt Lake Area, you can call (801) 264-LOVE.
DoulaNetwork.com I’m listed at DoulaNetwork.com – you can check out my profile there.
I highly recommend that you read at least two or more books on pregnancy and delivery. This way, you will start to see that
what some authors portray as fact is truly opinion. Also, as you read contrasting points of view, you can begin to form your
own opinions and make decisions about what is important to you. Here are some of my favorites:
Pregnancy Books
Conception, Pregnancy and Birth, by Miriam Stoppard
A Child is Born, by Lennart Nilsson
Pregnancy, Childbirth and the Newborn, by Simkin, Whalley, & Keppler
The Pregnancy Book, by Willam and Martha Sears
Complete Book of Pregnancy and Childbirth, by Sheila Kitzinger
Childbirth Books
Natural Hospital Birth: The Best of Both Worlds by Cynthia Gabriel
Giving Birth With Confidence: The Official Lamaze Guide by Judith Lothian and Charlotte DeVries
Creating Your Birth Plan by Marsden Wagner
The Birth Book, by William and Martha Sears
Gentle Birth Choices, by Barbara Harper
The Birth Partner, by Penny Simkin
Thinking Woman’s Guide to a Better Birth, by Henci Goer
The Doula Advantage, by Rachel Gurevich
The Doula Book, by Klaus, Kennel & Klaus
Postpartum & Breastfeeding
Infant Massage, by Vimala Schneider McClure
The Baby Book, by William and Martha Sears
Nursing Mother’s Companion, by Kathleen Huggins
Your Amazing Newborn, by Marshall Klaus and Phyllis Klaus
The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding, by La Leche League
The Year After Childbirth, by Sheila Kitzinger
Special Needs
No More Morning Sickness, by Miriam Erick
This Just Isn’t What I Expected, by Kleimann (postpartum depression)
The VBAC Companion, by Diana Korte (for those with a previous cesarean birth)
Postpartum doulas care for the mother in the first few weeks after birth, doing light housework, providing information, hands on instruction and help with newborn care, and helping with older siblings. This is not a service I provide, but I know and love postpartum doulas! Here are some local postpartum doulas you can interview and hopefully find the perfect one for you!